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Posted on Friday 10 August 2012 at 2:59 pm

Month Meme - Days 9 & 10


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Ganked this from mrstater. Would love to see more people do it, if you've got any time at all!

Missed another day so I'm doing two today. They work well together.

Days 9 & 10: Your sexuality and what you look for in a partner
I do somewhat wish the whole gay/bi/straight thing didn't exist as the dominant mentality in that I prefer Kinsey scale / continuum kind of mentalities and beyond that the idea of being attracted to individuals not entire groups of peoples (I'm heterosexual but that doesn't mean I am sexually attracted to every single person of a different sex/gender as mine), but since I have never really been sexually attracted to someone of the same sex/gender as me, I'm willing to accept the label straight.

So what do I find attractive in individual men? Well, I'm really all about the brain. I have to have someone smart, someone who is intellectually curious, who thinks and wants to learn. I'm just far too cerebral of a person myself and have to have someone who can challenge me and push me for this to not be a priority for me. That is followed closely by basic personality in that I need someone who is generally nice and cares about other people and who sees other people and treats other people, especially me, as important in their own rights and as equals. Everything else is way distant to those two. There isn't really a physical type to the men I've dated or to whom I've been sexually attracted and I don't think I look for anything in particular there. The only thing I can think of that past guys have in common is not being overweight, but I honestly don't think I'd have any problems dating someone who was overweight as long as the mind and personality were right. Otherwise, the guys I've dated have been different races, different heights, different hair and eye colors, different family religious backgrounds (though mostly tending toward agnostic or atheistic in their own personal lives), etc. and I've been attracted to an even broader range than the ones I've dated.

The Days of the Meme
1. Your name
2. All the places you've lived
3. Your first best friend
4. Your childhood fears
5. What you were like in high school
6. Your favourite and least favourite subjects at school
7. Your first boyfriend or girlfriend
8. Your oldest hobby
9. Your sexuality
10. What you look for in a partner
11. Your kids, or your feelings about having kids
12. Your pets, past and present
13. Foods you love and foods you hate
14. What your life was like ten years ago
15. How much alcohol you drink
16. Your worst illness
17. What you do at work
18. A question or comment people should never make to you
19. The style of clothing you feel most comfortable in
20. Whether you’re an extrovert or an introvert
21. Who you have a crush on
22. A friendship you lost
23. Three achievements you’re proud of
24. Your political views
25. Your religious beliefs
26. Your perfect night out
27. Whether you like to plan ahead or be spontaneous
28. What you look for in a friend
29. Whether you’re a night owl or a morning lark
30. How you would like people to remember you

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